Thursday, April 10, 2008

Seven Things That Women Want From Men

Its a question every guy asks himself, every guy struggles with at some point or another, every guy desperately wants to know the answer to:

WHAT DO WOMEN WANT?

The answer isnt easy to come by. There are as many answers as there are types of women: young, old; fat, skinny; talkative, quiet; beautifulnot so beautiful. They all want different things, different men for their different personalities. Its enough to drive a man crazy! We want to know so badly what it is women desire that Hollywood addressed the age-old question with the movie "What Women Want" (which, Im embarrassed to say, I enjoyed).

So, surelythere must be something ALL women want?

Thats the good news: There are certain qualities every woman can appreciate. And as men, thats what we need to focus on most. Not on what we THINK they want, but on what we can KNOW they want. Maybe we think being 6′5", wealthy, and jacked like a football player is what every woman wants, but (thankfully) its not. Only certain women want that, and the groupies who only want a millionaire athlete on steroids usually arent even worth your time.

Its better to focus on the girls YOU really want: the girls who make you feel good, and make you a better man. Empower yourself with a sense of choice, so that you dont waste your time (and theirs) hitting on girls who dont fit with your personality and purpose. The great news is, if you can provide the basic qualities that all women REALLY desire, then getting the girl of your dreams will be easy!

So lets look at some things we can safely say women want in a manregardless of his size, regardless of his looks, regardless of his wealth.

1. A demonstrative value. That is, women want to know that their man is someone other women would want. They want a certain "gotta have" quality about their man. This is why, when we go out with a girlfriend, women give us looks and always seem more interested. Its annoying but true: the easiest way to get a girl, is to have one already!

Naturally, that doesnt mean that you should be hitting on girls when you have a girlfriend. No way! But when you are single, its important to know how to show value. Ive got a great lesson on this in my e-book that will show you everything you need to know: how to make her laugh, how to show a talent, and how to make sure she never leaves you.

Theres so much to learn, but in short, you want to be a guy girls love to be around, and that other girls want to have! If you dont feel like youre there right now, do your best to be a fun-loving guy who people enjoy being around. Be quick with a smile, and quick with a joke. Even a guy who smiles a lot can be someone girls want. Who doesnt enjoy being around someone whos happy, who lifts the mood of the room?

2. A man who needs herbut not too much. This can greatly value from girl to girl, but basically women DO want to feel appreciated. They just dont want to be obsessed over. Guys, show interest in a woman, and make her feel beautiful and wantedbut dont slave over her and make her feel like you cant live without her. Thats just pathetic, and drives women away.

I wrote a blog on how women want to feel needed. Check it out now if you want to find out how to show your woman the right amount of love.

3. A feeling of security. Women want to feel safe with a man. They want to know that everythings gonna be all right. This doesnt mean you have to be huge and strong, or have millions in the bank. It just means you have to talk reassuringly to her, look after her safety, and assure her when she needs it that things are going to be OK.

It also means coming to her protection, when she needs it. If someone is being a jerk to her, stand up for her. If shes being threatened, fight for her. Let her know that you will fight for her, and nothing will get in your way.

One of the best ways to make her feel confident that you will protect her, of course, is to be

4. A guy whos in shape. Okay, I said that you dont have to be a professional rugby player to attract women, but that doesnt mean you should let your body slide! Part of a womans evolutionary mechanism says that a man who is strong will protect her and the children, as well as produce strong children. Likewise, a man who is weak will produce weak children, and not be able to protect the family as well (if at all) It may occur subconsciously, but its there.

So show her your value by being a guy whos well-built, healthy, and athletic. Join a gym, not just to get women but to improve your health and the way you see yourself. Join a martial arts classwho doesnt like a guy who can kick some ass? Youll feel better about yourself, making it easier to pick up girls, and her mating drive will only naturally attract her to you. Its a win-win situation!

5. Someone whos not boring. Doesnt matter how good looking you areif you bore a woman to tears, shes not gonna stick aroundor even give you a chance, for that matter. Be someone who smiles. Someone whos quick with a laugh. Someone who doesnt take life too seriously, who lets loose. That shows a lot more value than a guy whos stiff and seriouseven if he is good looking or wealthy. Believe me, there are lots of guys who have money, who have good looksbut are single, because theyre dull and not fun to be around.

6. Someone whos good with her friends. Youve seen it at bars: girls always look to their friends for their approval. Get their friends approval, and you get the girls approval.

Oftentimes its actually best to concentrate on getting to know the girls group of friends before you spend time talking to her. If you can make her friends laugh and enjoy your company, getting the girl you want will be a piece of cake!

I really like this piece of advice from Joseph Matthews, aka Thundercat, author of The Art of the Approach, in his free e-newsletter: "Meeting women when they are with their friends is WAY easier than waiting for when they are alone! This is because women with friends feel safe and relaxed, so their defenses arent up."

Furthermore, he warns that youre not doing your chances any favors by waiting til shes alone: "If you wait until shes by herself to meet her, youre walking into a situation where shes going to be WAY more defensive than usual." So learn to be sociable, and just have fun with her friends! If you can make them enjoy your company, getting your "targets" approval will be a piece of cake.

This is also where its good to go with girls in the same social network as youyou already have the approval of mutual friends. The book, Sex in America, says that 60% of married couples meet through friends, work, or mutual activities. For more information on using networking to your benefit, click here.

Finally, the trait all women REALLY want: 7. A man with a purpose. Believe me, women dont expect every guy they meet to be worth hundreds of millions of dollars, have more power than the mayor, and be more handsome than Brad Pitt. They dont expect you to be wildly successful. But they DO want you to be headed towards success. They DO want you to have direction. They DO want you to be living up to your potential. And those arent bad expectations to have! Remember, "Behind every great man is a great woman." You may not be at the top just yet, but as long as youre heading there, with goals in life, youre bound to attract women. And more importantly, reach your own personal success.

I highly suggest you read "The Way of the Superior Man," by David Deida. It details the importance of having a life purpose, both for you and for your girlfriend or wife. The book also explains the very important idea that if someone doesnt fit into your purpose, or detracts you from it, then she isnt worth your time. As I said above, dont just go for any old girl: go for the ones who fit YOU, and who make YOU a better person. Thats what we men should really want!

I hope all of this advice helps you out as you seek to improve yourself and attract the women who matter to you. Remember that it isnt important to know what the bimbo who wants to spend all your money wants: its important to know what women who want to be with you want. Empower yourself by being choosy, and youll be sure to attract the woman whos right for you.

Finally, for more information on attracting the specific women you really want, check out my e-book and audio series. Thanks for reading!

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James Brito regularly explores topics of attraction. Since 2000, he has helped thousands of men around build confidence and get the women they deserve. To get his free six-part audio mini-course, visit:

http://www.000relationships.com/towomen/
James Brito is the author of "How to Be Irresistible to Women." His years of dating experience and international travel have tutored him in the art of meeting and seducing women the world over. His immersion in international dating circles brings forth a gritty, no-nonsense approach to dating and developing relationships necessary for the modern single man. Learn more about how to attract the woman of your dreams at: http://www.000relationships.com

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